Female Freeloader

 This morning, I went out with Dad to Danau. Then to Bunut. Mostly to drive him there to oversee the status of the employees working on site. 

Dad brought back a papaya and as usual I don’t cut it. If I cut, I would definitely clean. Today, Mum helped to cut the papaya. Dad liked it anyway. I went to wash my hand and saw the papaya skin on a plate near the kitchen sink. We need to rush out to Bunut so I left it there. After we were back, I worked a bit. Probably the free loaders above still didn’t like to see this scene. As always 小人. Then Dad wants to eat so I brought my parents out to eat.

The female free loader talked to Dad about something in the kitchen. Normally Dad don’t kitchen unless to take water or to open or close the windows. At night, the two so called son and daughter in law would blame them for not closing the windows or doors. Eh! come on. Two elderly. Two people near fifties cannot close for them. What do they mean when they say they were taking care of parents. Anyway, back to the story. I suspected about the papaya skin so I went to the kitchen. The female free loader after finish her tuition was in the dining room. My dad was weirdly at the kitchen sink. So I went over, the woman just walked past me. I walked further in and saw my Dad throwing papaya skin into the bin and trying to wash the plate. Oh. So she has been the one forcing my Dad to wash plates la. Act like always kesian people but all acting la. She might as well take the opportunity to point out.

The rubbish bin also. Everytime she only needs to take outside but sometimes I saw my Dad doing it. Come on, this has been going on for how long. When my dad fell, she blamed by Mum for making my Dad wash the dishes. Come on, when I was home, I did the dishes for the whole family including your family of 5. You piece of shit cannot even wash two elderly plates? Normally if my mum cut her fruit herself, I will wash it too. Why? because she saved me the time to cut it and all I needed to do was washing for her. Who would say taking care of people but kept the two elderly plates aside? You stayed here rent free. Electricity free. Whole upper floor for themselves. When need furniture just take from shop. When need money can request everyone or have everyone to offer themselves. You only cooked three meals that you yourself and your own family eat. If you have to live on your own outside, you won’t even have the chance to look down on others. Anyway, I saw my Dad’s head down. I know it hurts him of how they have been treating him. Nowadays, I know how to speak up. So I did. Then the upper floor still slam door leh. Probably making a fuss about me making a scene.

Anyway, I never felt better than to speak out this time ever since their so called kesian face was just for show only la. Mostly all their life just recording and recording. Then drive people crazy then smile somemore. If you angry, they smile even more. When I not around, somebody fight with his own mum again. Oops sorry, he said my mum is not her mum. So, he fights with an elderly woman. Only when I not around. They have been doing tonnes of things then act like they are the victim. Get your angry reaction then use it against you.

We were quarrelling about letting me let Dad visit Doctor in Miri because he has been banging on the door at 2am. In the morning, my Dad came back and said we can’t go to Miri cause the so called son needs to go. I went to the shop and confront him. He like felt happy so I said if yesterday night was him only trying to disturb me la. Then don’t worry, I am a night person and I can go and do the same thing to your wife. Then I walked off the office. He chased after me and like wanted to fight. Did I cause the issue. Nope. From beginning he looked forward to it. Then as we quarrelled, he kept on getting closer. I pointed at him and somehow lucky I never even touched him. Then he asked, “Lee, you wanted to beat me ah.” Face like the gangster. Then I said, “what beat you? I am pointing at you while scolding you.”. His face disappointed. If I say yes, he has the chance to beat me. The way he did things revealed. Find a chance to put me at fault first then all his doings are just defending. Then act all victim. Saying the victim bully him. Since young, everyone knew him. 天大笑话。从小到大只有他欺负人。有人欺负他？说起来都好笑。应为不可能。孝顺？ 有人说照顾父母是让父母做家务吗？ 只煮三餐。可以讨钱。有免费的地方住。还是整个楼上还有后面的房间。冷气的。所以说以前都是撒谎的。只是利用我们而已。每次关于他们都会搞事情的。

Yesterday, my mum cut mango, I saw the peeling after and did the washing for her. My mum already improved leh. Last time she normally cut on the table and leave it on the table. I told her to use a plate and also do it in the sink since it will be easier for me to wash. I saw the plate and I just threw the skin to the bin and wash up the plate. So hard meh. The free loader used to throw all in the sink and also plastic bags or newspaper or whatever she used for cooking. Then after eating just go off leh. I have to help my mum or dad in the afternoon then night time I was the one cleaning up. As an adult, she didn’t know meh. With kids too. From one kid to three kids. If I do it to her, will she clean up. I go her house, cook at her place, after eat just leave everything on the table. I probably bring a few kids there to eat too and leave all the plates there. The make sure I throw enough rubbish in the sink. As a teenager, I told her to throw in the bin. She never did. Continues. Somemore she is a teacher. Anyway, as a teenager, I kesian her that she has kids, I still clean most of the time. I tired, I just don’t do lor. Especially during new year. She thought if she cook she can make a mess. Everyone should clean up after her. But hey, I also got cook leh. You going 30. I am 12 years younger. Who should be more considerate. Long story short. If you bully my parents, then don’t act like you care lah. Your true heart is too expensive. I too poor. Cannot afford it. Seems like you never know being poor. Of course, we shouldn’t have let you in. Then you will know what it is like being poor. We shouldn’t have share our portion. We shouldn’t be so stupid to be fooled into thinking you belong to this family or us your family. Only when money is involved we are. Well, what to do? My dad still believe lies from his eldest son. My dad loves him more than this son did to him and all his son did is all about his wife or his cars. Well, if not for Dad, you won’t have this chance to spend as you like on all these plays. You are and have been the only one doing what you liked without any consequences. Then still act like the only one being trapped here.